But tipping points… those moments when something moves from a like to a love, a want to a need, from dream to desire. What “tips”? What changes? In another post I talked about how desire doesn’t come out of nowhere – we have to see before we want.
So where is that moment?
Once I stood next to a man, watching an amazing thunderstorm that was trapped in the valley, and felt an emotional shift. We were co-workers, had been taking small steps to becoming friends, but in that moment – standing very close to each other, without touching, watching the lightning strike the city I knew. The shift had been made and we would become lovers. It was an almost tangible change in the air.
But what about smaller tips?
- The kiss that is just a whisper of what is possible that then drowns you – spiraling out from your lips and flames into lust.
- The moment when you find out your new lover has a nearly unquenchable oral fixation.
- What if your partner’s nipples are his/her tipping points? Those lovely “on” switches that when flipped can make them come.
- When the sound of his voice is all it takes to make you dripping wet.
- What about that point where we tip into orgasm. That breathless moment where sensations become unbearable and you push forward, not out of desire but out of blinding need.
I think I’ve found my story…. But there are more out there. More tipping points…events small and large that take us into new territory…what are yours?
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