Monday, January 11, 2010

Emma's Fav Erotic Stories

I thought I would play around with my new toy - sometimes I am such a geek!

Blogspot has let me link to Amazon and now I can write about, recomend, and link directly to books that I love. I thought I'd start with some old friends.

Emma's Favs

I loaned my copy of Aqua Erotia  to a lover and never got it back which has to indicate something…yes?

Best points - it's waterproof so yes, you can take it in the bath or shower and while away a lovely evening masturbating to the delicious short stories.

As a gift - pair it with candles, bathoils, and a water proof vibrator (Valentien's Day is next month after all) or maybe one of those heavenly sponges to help you get all wet and soapy.

The only down side is that many of the stories are more literary than pornographic - however there is more than enough good sex to cause you to squrim.

The Story of O by Pauline Reage is always a favorite.

But then this story has been on my mind for awhile. I'm currently working on a story about an artist's model and painter who are commissioned to do a series of paintings based on the novel.

Not as graphic as one would expect given its history - but as a period piece concerning BDSM in the early part of the 20th Century - it is still an amazing read and should be in the collection of anyone who considers themselves a coinsure of literary erotica.

Delta of Venus was my very first book of erotica.

I was young, and my lover was much older than me. One day while I was staying at his house and he was away I searched the bookshelves for a book to keep me company - I found this and it changed my life.

I had no idea that sex could be so poetic, brutal, prolonged, and brief.

Nin altered the way we looked at sex, providing a feminine view point that is missing from much erotic literature that came before her. The language is blunt and to the point even as it soars singing of experience for experience sake.

Susie Bright always brings the best together in her "Best American Erotica" series - however the 10th Anniversary Edition has some of my favorites.

Including – “The Erotic Adventures of Jim and Louella Parsons by Bertice Berry, an unexpected story of the impact conversation can have on your sex life and Lisa Wolfe’s “How to Make a Cake” a delightful fantasia combining sex and cooking.

It also has a selection of some of the best of the last ten years including – My Professor by Ivy Topiary, The Hit by Steven Saylor, writing as Aaron Travis, and my personal favorite “She Gets Her Ass Fucked Good” by Rose White and Eric Albert.

I’m always meaning to pick up more of these – the 15th Anniversary edition came out in 2008. I’m sure it is delicious.

Licks!

The things you don’t remember…

An old friend reappeared in my life this weekend. Truly unexpected.

With him came memories of a time when we almost became lovers. Let me emphases the ‘almost’ part of that sentence. Our timing must have been very off. Sitting with him, drinking wine in my living room, was delightful. Remembering with ecstatic joy the insanity of that short period of time when we attempted to be together was entertaining.

Our conversation was punctuated by a bubbling up of amusement that I couldn’t control as memory returned. He would ask me what was so funny and I would tell him. Nice to know he can laugh about it too.

One of the things I had forgotten about him was his love of watching.

This came up when I mentioned that I wanted to write up some sex toy reviews for the blog. He asked if he could help. Since I’m single again my intent was to focus more on the masturbation aspects of the toys. He said that was fine…he just thought it would be good to have an observers viewpoint.

Ahhh…. The things you forget.

I started to laugh. Yes, my old friend likes to watch. I’d forgotten. A memory surfaced of a time when he came over. I had just finished my workout and needed to shower. He asked if he could watch me. I acquiesced. He sat in the bathroom watching me shower following every movement of hand and soap. I asked him to wash my back. He did taking the opportunity to explore my back, my ass, and my legs, but then he backed off, and just watched as I finished.

It was a strange feeling – being watched – knowing that the person watching was experiencing something erotic. Odd in that he wouldn’t have touched me if I hadn’t asked. All he wanted was to observe. I didn’t experience any specific thrill other than the enjoyment of providing something that he desired.

The conversation moved on to other topics, as conversations often do. However it wasn’t too long before there was a pause in the natural flow and he brought up watching me play with toys again.

I was noncommittal.

He brought it up yet again, and again.

Hmmm…

I may have to think about this.

Licks!

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Emma’s Erotic Sketches – Penultimate Moments – Part II


As the plane settled into the gate and nestled up against the ramp, the passengers, too long in their seats, stood up and stretched in preparation.

Meg pulled her computer case from under the seat in front of her, put on her coat, and grabbed her purse. She was far enough back that it would take time for the rows ahead to clear, but that was fine. It would give her a chance to breathe and clear her mind of thoughts of Philip, but it couldn’t be done. As usual he had overwhelmed her. She had never met anyone like him, and she knew he felt the same. As much as Meg liked to keep her private life private, she was no prude. She enjoyed sex, and all of the games that surrounded it.

Meg had never expected to find a man who would be a willing partner in fulfilling her fantasies. Other men had given lip service to it, but none of them had really enjoyed it. There were so many varieties of sex to experience – even without getting really kinky or introducing toys into the mix – but most of her previous lovers came with sexual baggage. She wanted someone who would throw themselves into sex with abandon. She found that with Philip. He simply enjoyed it, enjoyed her.

The night that she had asked him to tease her was a revelation. He teased her up to and over into an orgasm – using his hands and voice alone. There was no penetration; he simply stroked her until she begged to be taken – to have something inside her, to provide her with relief. The more she begged the more he teased… telling her all the things that he wouldn’t do to her, all the while his fingers hinted at the promise. She was on top of him; he had both hands wrapped around her ass, playing with her. Her hips begged, swaying against his hands. Holding her tightly he prevented her from satisfying herself, yet in the end he couldn’t prevent her and she had come. He held her as the organism overtook her.

Days later she got up the nerve to ask him if he had enjoyed teasing her, his response was enthusiastic. Philip found it amazing that he could bring her to organism like that and from then on he delighted in finding new ways to hold her in suspense. There were times, when he would do nothing but tease her, to see how crazed he could make her. He loved watching her body undulate beneath his hands, responding to his touch, and begging to be taken.

Her thoughts took her through the gate and down to the luggage. She saw him before he saw her. She loved the look of him, tall with broad shoulders, the warmth of his eyes, and his broad welcoming smile that she could never resist. Hanging back for a moment Meg took a deep breath. Philip had no qualms about public displays of affection – she however did. His delight in seeing her always overrode her reluctance. How could she not give in when he wanted her so much? Once she was in his arms, kissing him, the world would slip away and she would no longer care.

She smiled at him, as their eyes met. She walked at her usual brisk pace to meet him. Within moments his arms where around her, and she was being lifted off the ground completely secure in his embrace. As he kissed her, one hand found her ass beneath her coat. The other hand wrapped around her back, holding her to him. She gave into his kiss. It warmed her from lips to toes and she answered every sensation and returned every touch. Time fell away and she had no idea how long they kissed, forever or a moment. It was all the same to her.

To be continued...

Licks!

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Emma’s Dating Wants & Don't Wants

Plenty of fish in the sea!

So, I’m back on the dating scene and it seemed a good idea to spend a moment remembering some of the guidlines I’ve come up with over the years. Some are my own invention others I’ve borrowed.

Now I can’t be the only person out there with a Want/Don’t Want list. We all have our image of an ideal partner. Be that drawn sharply or more of a water color. We each have it and pick our partners from it.

Here are some of the things that top my Want/Don’t Want list for 2010.

The Wants!
  • I am drawn to ambition and that internal fire. Ambitious people know what they want and they know how to get it. So sexy!
  • Healthy lifestyle! Please, you can’t expect me to work this hard to stay gorgeous and fit and expect not to want that in return. Plus exercise is an aphrodisiac like nothing else on the planet.
  • Comfortable in their own skin. Nothing is more of a turn on than someone who is grounded in themselves who is not self-conscious and does not worry about what others think.
  • I don’t share well so serial-monogamy is the preferred pattern.
  • Someone with a sex-drive!!!!!
The Don’t Wants!
  • No smoking (except the occasional cigar – I miss them so I can’t very well deny others the pleasure) and no recreational drugs.
  • The overly sensitive – those that live by their emotions – need not apply. A little pragmatism goes a long way…
  • No players! It is a front anyway an idea of how one should behave that suits very few. No one is amazing, beautiful, or sexy enough to share.
  • And my personal little hang-up…. No serious gamers of any stripe. Sorry mates! Old story but I have yet to have a relationship with a gamer that didn’t put their passion above me. Now I’m probably willing to be proved wrong… but it will take some serious convincing.
  • No one who doesn’t love sex!
I think that covers the basics. There are others and over the course of the coming months I’m sure that I’ll be reminded of them.

What about you? What are your Wants/Don’t Wants?

Licks!


Monday, January 4, 2010

Emma’s New Year’s Goals

I don’t make resolutions, I make goals!

Resolutions are about changing something. I want to achieve something so therefore I make goals.

As the old year gave up the ghost and the New Year was born I remained single, no one to kiss at the stroke of midnight, no one to cuddle up with during the long winter nights.

So, to date or not to date?

Last year brought me some delightful lovers and I have no doubt that this year will bring just as many, if not more. However they will be taking second place, because, after all, my main goal this year is to write.

Write a lot!

Write about sex, love, desire, satisfaction, lust, masturbation, bondage, kinks, fetishes…. Write about anything and everything that comes to mind.

Sometime this month my blog will move to her new home. That is a major goal. Moving it to a place where we have more scope for discussion and more scope to work with. You will be seeing more short fiction and reviews.

If you have any ideas, anything you’d like to see, like to read, let me know.

This is going to be one hell of a year…

Licks!